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No mick your not alone anymore you have us

Their is a chat link too if you fancy a chat.Also lots of helpful links and if you ever need to ask a question im sure someone will have the answer.

Lots of people on here are in different stages of seperation / divorce and all have a story to tell and some will be similar as yours .

We all have good days and bad days but it does get easier just try to think positive as hard as it is and take care of yourself x

muchtoomuch x

Hallo and welcome Mick

We are all in the same boat here.

Welcome

This site will help you get through

Take care of yourself I know how you feel

First the shock, then pain and anger. been through all these, beginning to have acceptance (after 26 months). Things get better, the bad days get fewer, you get through a couple of hours without thinking about your situation, then a few more.But....bad days still creep up on you unexpectedly, I just accept that they are less frequent now. Looking back on the good times, I had 19 good years and 8 bad weeks before I found out aboutmy husband's affair. I have been luckier than a lot of people.
I find it easier to have as little contact as possible but we are all different and cope in different ways.
Lots of good advice on this site but I have found: keeping healthy helps cope with the stress, accept any invitations you can (you are better off doing something, almost anything than dwelling on your past/situation.)Set yourself some realistic goals and celebrate your achievements, take one day at a time, accept help from good friends/family and above all be kind to yourself. It is hard!My oh has changed so much that the person he is now is a person I would not wish to know!
I will just be relieved know to put all this behind me and have a peaceful life. I have just got to the end of a wonderful birthday (53) and have been very spoilt by my 3 wonderful kids. Life can be good, different but still good!