Hello

Hi everyone,

Am currently separated with divorce papers served on me. Have 2 children 13 & 6 and currently living in a flat away from the marital home, whilst children continue to live at home with mother. Situation is bad enough but keep finding out extra hidden debt run up by the wife both in her name and my name. People say things get better in time please hope that is soon.

Hi and welcome

Yes this site is a good source of help and support and you'll find out it does get better from reading wiki peeps blogs. I like to see some ones first blog and the their most recent you'll find things slowly improve.

Although my wife called time on our marriage because she had not been happy for along time. I too can see I was was not happy too and I now see that I am not blameless in its failure.

I want to come out of my divorce stronger and more at one with myself than before. Today my car finally died and I need to buy a new one I don't have the money, but I need a car, before the separation I would of got stressed by this - but not now.

Yes there are some many things to sort out emotional and financial. Things may well get worst before they get better, but the WILL get better.

Take care of yourself

Thanks for that,

There are some great people on here.

Reading other peoples situations puts mine into perspective.

Take Care