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Shezi
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31 Oct 09 #158740 by Shezi

Reply from Shezi

Hi gnomelady

Just wanted to welcome you to wikivorce. There are many on these boards in your situation so I hope you're able to get the advice you need. I think you already realise that the divorce is going to cost you more than it costs him - in fact, if he's not putting in - then he stands to gain!

It won't seem fair to you - divorce rarely looks fair to either party. The length of your marriage means he will probably walk away with something.

If you want advice on what a fair settlement might be, post the answers to the Qs on this link - then someone will be better able to advise you:

www.wikivorce.com/divorce/Divorce-Forum/...G-IN-THIS-FORUM.html

I do agree with Itgetsbetter though... the sooner you can resolve this, the less it will cost and the sooner you will be able to draw a line under it and get on with your life.

Take care

Shezi

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