life after separation

Hi all, here iam again. Since my last post i have tried really hard to have no contact with my x husband. However last night he appeared uninvited and claimed he needed something from the shed. I reminded him that he could not come to the MH uninvited he replied saying he had been phoning me but i was not answering [ lies]anyway i went to th shed to get the requested item and as i gave it to him he tried to hold my hand [ i quickly withdew my hand]after this he was asking stupid questions and i kept catching him staring at me!He continued to poke around the shed , i asked him to leave , well i said 'beat it'- he said you don't tell me to 'beat it' and i replied with i think you will find that i just did. I then walked into the house locking the door behind me and leaving him standing in the back garden.
Last night i felt so pround of myself but today feel lost and empty again.

Hi Nossi. That was a V brave thing todo. You have shown to him and yourself that you are working your way to getting over him. Dont feel bad. You did the right thing. He is just playing mind games. Maybe a good thing next time to ring the police. Its not right to turn up unanounced. C.

Hi there - Well done you! You should be very proud of yourself. You are doing what you need to protect yourself and try to move on. Please keep doing that and let him know by your actions, as you did last night, that YOU are in control of your life. Not him. I hope today is a good one for you. Try to relax and enjoy it. Take care, Bon