missing my family

i have been in a 8 year Relationship i have 2 kids my boy is 3 and my daughter is 6 my ex
has been on facebook talking to lads this is the second time now but now she is back near her mum and sister now her sister is 16 and goes clubing with her there are makeing it worse for me as i love her all my heart and just puting things on facebook they kicked my out i live 100ml away now and she is just going out clubing all the time now and leaving my kids at her mums and just want me to have the kids whan she go out clubing and when she meeting lads my kids want me home for chriscmas i am missing my kids i am seeing a solicitor 2moz any info would helpful

Welcome to Wikivorce

It's so hard when one partner moves on without any problems, especially when they seem to be unaware of their children's needs.

My husband left 15 months ago to live with new woman. He is 5 minutes' drive away by car but is often unable to see our sons (17 and 15) because he has to babysit ow's children who are younger, or collect them, or drop them off etc.

I've tried explaining to ex how our sons feel - that he seems to be putting ow's children above his own - but its fallen on deaf ears.

So sad. He thinks because they are teenagers they don't need him as much, whereas I think they need him more.

Hope your meeting with the solicitor is useful and productive.

Hi

In Scotland the Gov has put together a parenting agreement pack aimed at separating parents it can be found here.

Not sure if the english gov has the same thing but you might find some info in our one, it will certainly give you an idea of what to ask your solicitor.

One of my greatest fears is being separated from my kids, I hope you manage to sort things out.

My husband went through hell in his first divorce, a lot of worries about his young son. He fought for custody and won. We married later (I already had a daughter) and we had our own child. These experiences didn't stop him from leaving us for someone else and shattering all our lives

the worse part about it is i gave a two bedroom house in leicester to move in her mums empty house in Linconshire so she could be close to her mum . It was all one big plan to get me over their and to get rid of me so i cannot see my kids .