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Going Backwards

Donelovinhim
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14 Jan 10 #176615 by Donelovinhim

Reply from Donelovinhim

Just this afternoon I too have come to the conclusion I am not going to 'settle'. Without notice the cheating STBX has emptied the joint account. Not that I had anything in it, but he's moved all the direct debits too and now I don't know what's paid and what isn't. So in updating my interim payment application this afternoon, instead of being the 'that will do to keep me' person, I'm going to be the 'I'm getting my hair done every week' person. Each time he tries to make me feel even more crap, I'm going to come back at him stronger.
And the next time he stays out all night, I'm not going to worry he's been in an accident. I'm going to hope he is in a bloody accident!!!!

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