what is best to stay or leave

Unless you are in fear for your safety, I would recommend you do not leave if not financially viable. As repeatedly stated, no two cases are the same, many factors to be considered. Many that remain are struggling to cope, many that leave are struggling to cope. If feasible, take time making the decision
Best of luck
Elle

decided to go had no sleep for 2 days very little to eat and have not stopped arguing about rubbish the only thing I can find out that I have done wrong is not take the kids out on a weekend, and not show her any love.
I have a fear she is seeing someone else this makes me sad and make me unable to react to her in a loving manner I have made an offer on a 1 bed studio flat for 70k and raised the funds on my first mortgage with the house being in my name it is the best option, I am going to see how quick I can move I am less then a mile from the kids home so they can visit as much as possible.
Today has been bad and need to find a place very soon.