Re husband

I have separated from my husband 2 years ago in July, We sold our house, I have now bought my own house, and so has he. We do not have kids.

The problem is I am struggling a litte to cope - I have struggled with work. A temporary contract has ended - I have no job at all now and am having to claim incapacity benefit, as the doctor thinks I am not up to paid work.
I have recently approached my husband and asked if he would help me financially, but he said definately not, and I have a cheek asking.

I have gone to his house in tears a couple of times recently, only to be criticised and told I was always like this andits my fault the marriage broke down. He does not want to know now, its not his problem - he also said the reason he went off me in the bedroom was because I was so stressed. its very hurtful..... He said he is prepared to be friends, but hes obviously very angry with me.

Would suggest you get your free half hour with a solicitor and discuss what you can do, start the ball rolling on divorce using unreasonable behavour, as you are in reciept of IB you can get legal aid.

how long were you married, what are and were your finances when split and now, including pension, pay, properties