Hi, I'm new, be kind lol

Hi all, I'm new, my husband walked out 3 weeks ago leaving 3 children, I'm struggling to cope with the stuff he's done but struggling even more to come to terms with how little money we're going to manage on, I'm worrying we'll lose the house.

I'm in the same position with two children. It's a scary time. I'm taking one day at a time.

feelingsad / rose3436

Welcome to Wikivorce. Home of the heartbroken. Fisrt thing I can say is don't worry. The law is there to protect you and whatever else happens, you will be OK.

There is such a lot of practical and emotional help here. You may find it helpful to look at the Wikivorce Step By Step guide to divorce (Free Resources Menu at top of page).

You may want to try and get an appointment with your local citizens advice to check that you are claiming all the benefits that you are entitled to, and that you claim your council tax rebate for single adult occupancy.

It is a daunting time. But you WILL come through this and out of the other side. It heurts like hell. The betrayal, the loneliness, the uncertainty. Somewhere deep inside you is a strength that you never knew you had. You will find it and use it to get through the next few months.

Use the resources here at wikivorce and ask for help on specifics as you need to.

Pop intio the chatroom and meet some of the others here and share experiences. It is great to know that you are not alone. Most of all, be nice to yourself. You are hurting a lot.

Best of luck and take care of yourselves and your children.

Mike

after 25 years with my husband I feel like I couldn't have ever known him, it's such a horrible feeling. I discovered recently that he's been using internet sites offering sex, not the usual dating sites but the graphic perverted ones

He seems to feel no remorse,treating me as if it was ME that did wrong and has very little contact with the children.

I'm just been diagnosed with depression, so maybe when the tablets 'kick in' I'll feel strong enough to deal with everything