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Like another member although I registered some time ago, I have never been in any internet chatroom before so here goes. 57 year old male, married for 35yrs and two wonderful sons who have both achievied major degrees at Uni and one is about to start another in Sept to study medicine.

Hopefully I am in the final stages of moving out of the matrimonial home, but I have been here before as everything was supposed to be settled by the 2nd June, due to the credit crunch, however my wife struggled to get a mortgage as she is buying my portion of the house. That was a mistake I should have forced the sale back in December when
this particular incident kicked off. However I was being a big softie again, a reason she always said she loved me for, because I was a big softie at heart. No more, should have finished it Sept 2005 when I discovered her inappropriate relationships with a "special friend" as she called him. She hates the word affair. However we are where we are and she moved out on the 2nd June and told everyone she could not handle the emotional stress, no it was to try and force me to pay bills and mortgage, considering I was also made redundant in December is an impossible task. Said to her over the years I always felt she wanted more it was never enough, and so it has proved. Fortunately I have had great support from my family & close friends and that will continue. Enough for now.

Hey there mate...

chin up. hope things better for you..

You are right.. affair is an affair.. dont let her dress it up for you. She did wrong.. not you.

Hope things get better for you.

Thanks for that.Put a smile on my face for the first time today.

Hi Staffa

Just keep logging onto this site - so many good people here to help you.
Best of luck for the future.
Rainyx

hi staffa

prev post is right an affair is an affair....

keep coming here it will help....you have a right to your own new life and its time for you to think about yourself !!

take care
daisy
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