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04 Jul 08 #30850 by moveonup
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Of course it never is... I fear this will sound like some trashy article but here it is the real deal
But I must be thinking about divorce at possibly the worse time
I am 27 weeks pregnant with a 4 year old and a 2 year old (who are totally lovely).
I have just come back from hospital after a scare only to find that my husband has been gambling ( again with my bank card ). I love him - he has lots of good points but is absolutely irresponsible financially. He is an actor but not very successful and I have basically supported him since we have been together. I cannot bare gambling, not only it is for muggs, it makes him lie to me which is even worse. He has been twice to GA but is not serious about it.
This its having a deep imapact as I want a partner I can have a trusting adult relationship with and he is never going to change. I am pretty terrified about it.....

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04 Jul 08 #30853 by rubytuesday
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HI Moveonup

A big hug for you, hun ((((((((hug)))))))

Im so sorry you are here, but this is a good place to be, we are here to help and support you in anyway we can.

We are all going through divorce/speration or have been there, there is no need for you to be alone now you are here.

Take care, and keep posting

Ruby xxx

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