life at the moment

I am currently experiencing divorce anger and found this web site in order to help me out. I am an irish hospice nurse with two very young children and am having to live with my husband whilst i divorce him. He has admitted to having an affair for most of our married lives and wants me to put up and shut up about it and get over it. I am trying to persuade him to leave the house and he just wont. Part of the problem is that he feels i will change my mind, that his own father did the same thing and his mother spent the rest of her life trying to 'get over it' until she died aged 48! He feels all should be swept under the carpet and it would probably suit him if this whole disaster area drove me into a loony bin. My protective feelings towards my young boys are fierce and they remain oblivious to my current misery. Not normally religious I now go to mass in the vain hope of divine intervention. Instead am trying not to vent my anger out on him as this is used to his advantage. Does any of this sound familiar to anyone? Am i going mad? Marie

Marie,

Welcome to wiki.

You are not going mad.

You are angry.

It is part of the process. Use that anger constructively and vent it here when you need to. YOu may find writing a blog helpful .. or come into the chatroom when you can.

I am not big on divine intervention .. although am convinced my stbx has deserved several thunderbolts. But I am big on friendship and support. That is what you will find here.

Hadenoughnow

how do i get into the chatroom, am a bit computer iliterate?

Hi, sorry to hear you are married to a toss pot, at least you are in the right place.

click on home at top then click on chat room just after the list of names.

look forward to talking to you.
dawn

thanks
from
tosspot divorcer!

That's better

still cannot do the live chat thing. flashchat comes up and I can't type on it. will try again soon