I'm new and Useless on this type of site - help

Hi everyone - having spent a few nights over the last month or so stumbling around this site are there any tips people can give me to get the best out of it?

With so many users I just don't know where to start - can you for example sift through the members to find people in certain categories - e.g like me "Mid 40's male - wife is an adultress" etc etc?

I have received a few nice e-mails to my blog and this is nice. I have also seen there are some 'events' which in duecourse I may attend - informal ones mainly perhaps at first but when I finally get 'single' again I may have more time to start my life ove again.

Anyway - just thought I'd throw a pebble in the pond and see what ripples come back

hi justin,
welcome to wiki.Just get in ask your questions or add your comment to questions.they are in different categories.AS far as age is concerned I do not think there is any difference ,all of us are on the divorce path or already divorced.Some are with young children (young) others with grown up children(old).Join the chat,it is quite untertaining and helpful.
take care

Thanks Maria - I'll do just that - just find it difficult getting much 'private time' on the PC (My Blog tells it all and still living with wife)

Anyway appreciate your taking the time to respond and will chat soon

Hi Justin

You did well for your first post, better than me anyway!
As far as I know there isn't a way of sifting through the members. You'll soon find there are alot of people in the same situation as you - ex's were cheaters. You soon become hooked on this site, there so much useful info and it's good to hear from other people going through similar things to you.
The help and advise I've had so far have helped me sooooo much. So keep posting your life has started again!

hi justin

If you come into chat you find loads of people same age and in the same boat as you, we don't only talk divorce we have a laugh too.

Hi Justin,

We've 'spoken' already... just wanted to say 'welcome' and I agree with Angel, the best way to get to know who's who is to wander into chat.

I'd never chatted in a box before (which is a strange thing for a chatterbox to say ) so when I joined wiki, I went into chat but just read what everyone else was saying and didn't feel I had anything to contribute. I joined in when I was ready... eventually writing my first ever blog! You got there much more quickly, so there's real hope for you

Just do what you're comfortable doing Justin, but it would be real nice to see you in chat sometime.

Shez x

P.S. - I've been to a few of the wikimeets now and they are fab! They really kick-start a social life

hi justin,

welcome to wiki:)

chat is best for finding out those u have stuff in common with, good friendships have been made in chat.

wiki meets r good fun, and its not all divorce talk either!!!

mish

xx