Wading through treacle

Hi Tarnlass

Reading your post I felt the need to add my comment - today is a good day for me (in other words I am feeling strong as opposed to yesterday when the tears wouldn't stop flowing). Like you my husband informed me he hasn't been happy for a while (I wondered why he was being a miserable sod, but it was getting difficult to tell the difference between a good or bad mood with him!). He also informed me that he was not getting enough of the bedroom action after I had 3 miscarriages!! - isn't he just delightful. I am now sitting in a part finished house (building project we bought jointly 4 months ago), whilst he is living the single life in a town I moved to as part of his job! I am not relishing the prospect of untangling all the mess, but it keeps your mind occupied and rather than take revenge on the woman I am sure he is having an affair with (poor cow!) I am painting the house like a demon and the poor dog also! Hey ho - life goes on and my humour is the only thing that appears not to be damaged by all of this.

Best wishes

Welcome to Wiki

This site is very good for letting off steam and talking, blogging. Its all fresh and raw now, wish you good luck and look forward to seeing you in chat. Take care.

Saff

Hi Tarn

Welcome to wiki - nice to see you in chat yesterday. Not a nice story Tarn, but as Red says - lots of peeps here in the same position. Reading other posts and blogs really does help to put your experience into perspective, and you have to do that before you can move on. Self-pity has a function... but is ultimately destructive. Don't let him do that to you on top of everything else.

Shez x

you seem to have said it all. thank you. the sweetest revenge is none at all. it is in the head. revenge doesn't work and can do exactly the opposite to the intention.