grounds for divorce

The main reason I want a divorce is because of my emotional state and really need to get my life in order and on track, closure if you like.

I understand perfectly. But maybe he needs the time to come to terms with it. If you are through it really does not make difference for you. But maybe for him instead of UB slap in his face. Regard it as the last thing you owe him. And then you have done your bit towards the marriage

hello marge im new today also

my wife wants a quick divorce

i just want to get on with life now

she doesnt love me now with she blames on my depression

and she wants to use ub i just hope i can not take to heart what she says cos i still love her at the moment.

Marge

I have been, like you trawling the internet and old posts on here to try and understand the current status of my marriage..

I feel and understand your current position.Has your husband expressed that he is happy for the marriage to end?

If so and you cannot find the grounds maybe seperation is your only option. If you both feel that here is no hope.

I know that you feel that you would like to deal with it quickly but unless there is a valid ground you will have to go the routes already discussed.

If it is just getting your emotions on track do you really feel that divorce is the right route?

Also you may want to consider what else is affected by the marriage ending and that will lead to more emotional turmoil where you may find persuing the counselling route or trying to work it out now that your husband is fully aware of how you feel may make it work..


If your marriage once meant so much maybe it is still worth trying...

It hasnt been mentioned above but if there are children involved you will have to look into what arrangements need to be made for them too if you seperate.



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