5 days in.

I am getting seperated after 5 years of being with my wife. I married the wrong woman...her first husband killed himself over her, because she treated him badly. She is still in love with him and treated me like crap. I did everything in the world for her and even adopted her child, from a marriage after her first husbands suicide. She said the reason is because she didnt know who I was, because I am a part time actor and hid the fact that I started a production company to do a film I wrote, she would always get mad at me when I did stuff like this, so I didnt tell her. I am so freaking confused and lost.

Hurtusa,

You will be hurt and confused and things won't make sense for a lot longer than 5 days, but writing your concerns and feelings here will help you focus a bit and in turn those of us who have been through what you are experiencing now could help you deal with it.

Firstly mate, it isn't good.

Secondly, it DOES get better - believe me.

YA