what should I do?????

Thanks for the advice, in the letter I wrote that I was sorry about what was said in the argument. I did remind him off the things he had done to me ion the past and asked him how he would feel if I had done them. I dont thing he would have forgiven me.

I did tell him that what IO said in the pos that In the past I have always forgiven him and wanted to make the effort to try at our relationship, he has always wanted to leave and end it.
I have started to come to terms with this and realise it takes two to make a relation ship - it’s not worth me trying anymore on my own.

I know I dont want this life but I just feel like saying forget your behaviuor lets get back to normal

Thanks for the advice. Spoilt child is an exact description of him 38 years old and his parents still make allowances for him.

I keep telling myself I will be aright I just dont want the disruption for the kids etc.

If it helps. I've been seperated and going through a divorce for 18 months now (messy to say the least) and our two children (9 & 6) are OK. As long as you can stay strong and most importantly happy, they will be happy too.