hi im new and thought id share my sory

hi im new on here so i thought id share my story.....my wife left me for someone i know.3 years ago im divorced now and iv tried to move on iv tried to feel hate..tried to meet new people and its just like going round and round in circles in my mind.why...whatif etc etc if you know ewhat i mean im not a bad man..she left me for an arsehole its like the good guys dont get anywhere i try not to think but it always surfaces i wanna just forget...iv changed a lot got a new job etc new people round me.......my mates are my mates but they dont understand what ive gone throught realy.its like oh have another drink ul be ok...it broke my heart........so whats this site about is there social activities etc

Hi Jowil, welcome to Wikki. This is a place for support & understanding to help you get through a divorce or seperation & to help you rebuild your life again. I'm sorry you are finding it hard to move on after your divorce, many of us here are just the same. It helps if you read other peoples threads & realise you're not on your own.
Life will get easier for you, have you tried dating again yet? One day the right person will come into your life again, but not until you heal yourself & feel brighter about the future.

Good luck, keep posting,
Cindy

sorry to read your story. Not easy for the ones left behind to move on sometimes is it. I know what you mean, you always come back to the what ifs etc. Would be ok if you got the chance to see if the what ifs would work. At least then if they didnt you would know you had tried.
I thought my husband was a good guy, but he walked out on us 3 months ago, at 43 life was just passing him by. bored with marriage, home and family life. He claims no one else but obviously will be looking as no longer has the family ties that bored him so much. Trying to concentrate on my daughter just now - must admit would be great to get out but family got to come first.