Am I mad?

My husbad got a job abroad and 18months later we joined him (my Mum lives with us and my 16 yearold son from a previous marriage) I found on his laptop a photograph of a woman (nothing rude) and he had created 2 new e-mail addresses. As far as I know we have always been open and honest with each other, but all the response I get is "I cant remember" or "just someone I played poker with" It has become an obsession with me now, all I want is honest answers but he wont give them to me. My dream home and life is crumbling away. I love him more than I can describe..should I let sleeping dogs lie or cut my losses? I have my mum and son to consider. Everytime he goes away will I be wondering?

I have pictures of people on my pc of those I talk too , more female than men but have no desire to stray, never felt the need to.... It may be just that with the lap top. If has a chatroom he goes to then most have a save feature so you can see what youbeen talking about you could always look for that. also in the search any names that are file may bring documents up

My current g/f spends her time talking to female and male friends on IM and email but every time I check emails or surf the net she wants to know what I am doing.
The first thing she did when she came to my house was check out the recycle bin.
My view is that anything that was deleted before we got together is nothing to do with her.
I now as a matter of routine always clear the history, not that I have anything to hide.
Little does she realise that she is a hairs breath from getting her arse kicked out.

I kinda come accross as a nosey cow......... I am not, I dont suspect he has strayed. He had deleted them, cookies the lot but rather stupidly did not empty the re-caycle bin. The e-mails are shut down (any mail sent bounces back) I just want him to tell me. Is it too much to ask? This isnt before we met, I dont care what happened then, this is one month before we moved out to him, we have been together 7 years married for 3

No beex

Wouldnt not say being nosey,nor was it in my mind, you are showing concern which is only right and hubby should realise that. and yes as youve said tell him, the other thing is I belong to that friends reunited and the cheeky sods started sending me their date site and women my age invatations, had I got a partner would hate to think what would of gone thru their mind.

But in all this I do know that both sexes have caused major problems in marriage by going on into chatrooms and meeting up maybe innocently at first, its letting it grow into more that is the danger.