1st post

Hi this is my first post I am into the 5th week of my world crashing down. I discovered my husband was cheating in me. We had been together for 23 years (18 years married) have 2 kids 14/17. After I found out about the affair he told me that he had been feeling that he didn't love me anymore and life had gotten boring. The other woman is also married and pregnant (not his) with her second child. He can't really explain to me why he doesn't want to try and work through things (nor would he stop seeing her) so in the end I asked him to leave. I had no idea anything was wrong he was acting totally normal. But now my world is crushed. The only talking we have done is about details to do with the house. And even then it feels like a just. When I have tried to talk to him about how I feel he acts like a fed up teenager who doesn't care about what your saying. I have no idea where all this has came from.