Hi everyone

Thought I'd just introduce myself. I'm divorced mum of 3 andboys just at the point of ending my new relationship. I've been with my current partner for 4 years, last year we moved in together with my 3 a nd his 1 son but unfortunately it hasnt worked out and I'm just about to move back to my old house, which I had rented out. We were planning on carrying on the relationship, but last night he said he wants to finish,as he can't go back to living apart. I'm devastated- he says we will both soon meet someone new, but I've invested so much and given up so much for this relationship that I can't imagine being with anyone else. It almost seems as bad as when my ex husband left me 6 years ago- I thought then my life was over and it seems its ending again. My ex husband has just remarried -back from his 3 week honeymoon yesterday- and my relationship is over. It seems so unfair.Boys can't wait to see their Dad and I'm left alone I feel really low. To make matters worse, I'm in the middle of a battle with exhusband over chid maintenance and don't know if I've got the strength to carry it on.Sorry to sound so down, but I would appreciate any comments/ support. Thank you.

Hi Soxy,
It must feel unfair and can feel your pain. It must feel that every one is happy and married (ex) and you are having to sort out another breakup. You also have a child with your recent partner.
I am a divorced mother of 2. My relationship broke down from last relationship and my ex hubby too. I am alone and only have 'friends' no relationships because I cant cope with break downs.
Why does he want to end this relationship anyway, what about your son ?
I sought counselling and went to the doctor to sort out the depression side of things.
So I would suggest a good counsellor may be able to put things in perspective, direction and understanding, time to bereave and coming to terms with things then moving on.
I am sending lots of postitive energies your way........

teabag

Thank you teabag. I don't have a son with my current partner, we live at the mo with my 3 sons and his son. The relationship is in trouble because he's decided he can't cope with living with my children. My ex husband has always been awkward over arranging access and I've been put in the middle of it all. 6 months ago, my partner said that unless my ex would have my youngest son every other weekend, the relationship would finish. My ex refused, situation at home became unbearable, so I decded to move out.Changed schools etc and gave my tenant notice, so that we could move back. We were planning on still continuing to see each other, but things have been gradually getting more tense, until last night he said we are finished.