And finally the truth.

Hi Rosielily

I've not been in your situation, so I'm not going to pretend I understand how you feel - but there is so much of what you say that I CAN relate to.

You've found the best place to be for now - right here. Many peeps at wiki have gone / are going through the same and you're in safe hands here.

In the meantime, I want to give you a wikihug

((((((((((((((((((((((((((((rosielily)))))))))))))))))))))))))

Shezi x

Many of us here have been hurt & humiliated by our spouses cheating & lies, we too gave them everything & thought they were happy enough with us. Sadly some people just walk away from a marriage, hope the grass is greener but try to hold onto their marriage prtner in case their new life fails! My ex has done exactly the same as yours. Declares his love for me, tells me i look great, says he still cares & always will etc but the fact is he is still with the other woman. We have to let them go & somehow rebuild our lives. We deserve so much better & have to believe that. One day we will find love again & hopefully not give our exes a thought!
Cindy