No communication with husband

Hello, please help!!!!!

I'm 53 married since jan. 1992 and I'm German, gave up my well paid Job in Germany
to be with him. After tow years into the marriage I was diagnosed with a chronically disease. So I'm still on heavy medication and regular check ups. During our marriage I only worked part-time, few hours per week, Husband runs its own business and employed me "on paper" part-time. Now we both want to divorce and I ask him what I shall do now. He said: I have to declare things" I don't even know where all the money is because we sold our house.
I can not even talk to him, he won't give me any answer.

How do I go from here.

please help me!!!!!

Were you married in the UK? Are you divorcing in the UK?

At some point he will need to start talking. If he chooses to do this only through a legal representative; then it will get very costly. You could start by asking who his legal representative is? Or if he's the Petitioner; await instruction from them.

This sounds like the usual stage of denial; whereby he's told you the marriage is over, and hasn't quite come to terms with what is involved in the Divorce proceedings.

Welcome to wiki, where you can learn a lot about UK Divorce proceedings; and find a lot of emotional support.

Unfortunately: we do not have ways of making him talk!

Sera
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Thanks for the quick reply. I got married in UK and want to get divorced here

I don't know what he earn, won't tell me and where all the money is from selling our
house 5 years ago. he put the money in different accounts and share as well as into his pension fund.

There are proceedures required for financial disclosure; either exchanged voluntarilly between parties; or as part of the court proceedings. However, I have no idea how you prove where money is; or what accounts he has; especially if they're abroard???

Start prying into any Statements you can find, or any supporting paperwork for anything... even if it's just account numbers / Pensions etc for now.

Sometimes just googling your old address on sites such as mouseprice.com will give results of houses sold with just the postcode information. I don't think he could hide the price he got for the house, (easy enough to track through Deed titles etc) but if the money's been used up these past few years; you can't get at it if it's spent.