Love story that end's in a divorce

Hi...to everyone. My name is Tina, I am 24 years old, living in Glasgow and a proud mother of a superb boy aged 2 and half.
On 15 of March 2005 I met my husband (soon ex) in Romania where I am originally from. We fell in love instantly. 6 of May 2005 asked to be his wife. July 2005 bought the wedding rings from Romania and fell pregnant. September 2005 moved to Glasgow. 9 November 2008 wedding day, at that time the happiest day of my life. Wonderful man back then. 11 of April 2006 our son is born. September 2006 my husband was made redundant. With the bills and debts knocking at the door decided to work myself and leave him in care of our son. Everything seemed fine then. I was working as a supervisor in a store. Then I had the opportunity to become self-employed as an Interpreter. Fantastic income everybody happy, less my husband. He became more stressed every day. Arguments started. I didn't know why because he would not communicate with me at all. Than with a helping hand from one of his mates he started to go out like twice a month and come drunk home at 5 am. He started to swear at me a lot and verbally abuse me. It went like this for almost 2 years. My son came to me the other day after one of ours many arguments when he is swearing at me in front of our baby and he said f*****g daddy and f*****g mummy! I started to cry and I got very upset as I wasn't very happy of my son saying such words that he hears in the house. He was also very sad because he seen me crying over and over again. The arguments were like one every 3 days. Yesterday I decided to take my little boy and move out as this is the best option. It's very hard, as I have only one friend...no money...looking for a house with a cheap rent and so on. Since I left the house he made only one phone call where he started again blaming me for everything and I really don't understand what I have done wrong. I was working my eyes out to maintain the family...dressing him with the best clothes..and my little one the same...affording to take him out for dinners and etc...I can't even remember when was our last time spent as a happy family in 3! Every day of that I had he used to get out the house and spending it with one of his friends...today he got angry with me because I dared to tell him that the trousers that he put on David ( my son) were to small...and he started swearing banging doors etc... DID I REALLY DESERVE SUCH A BEHAVIOR FROM HIM??
So folks this is me...Pleased to meet u all.

Hallo and welcome Tina

Gosh, whirlwind romance! Baby on the way before you had got to know eachother properly. I am so sorry it has ended in such a sad way.

I had 31 years with my husband, which he was able to walk away from without a backward glance. He's living with a woman and her younger children, and hardly bothers to contact our two sons 14 and 16.

I can't relate the man he is now to the one I married 18 years ago.

You will find support on the site and I wish you the best in sorting out a happy future for yourself and your son.

No Regrets...many thanks for your reply... I am so sad... I fell so sorry for my little one for which I hope that will be able to grow with his both parents...(mines were divorced..) beside crying and crying and again crying.. I really don't know what to do..

(((((((tina)))))))
welcome to wiki.
I am sorry that you have found yourse;f in this situation.It is bot your fault,a lot of men find it very difficult to cope not being the breadwinner.It is sad that he is not prepared to talk about it.There is no excuse to being abusive though.
You will find a lot of help and support here.
Hopefully you moving out will make he realise what is going on in his life.I think there is still hope for you if he is willing to seek professional help such as councelling.
good luck

Tina

I`m so sorry that this has happened to you and welcome to wiki, we will all support you and help you with anything you need to know. I do hope that you will be able to communicate better with hubbie once things have setled down and maybe work things out. Meanwhile just concentrate on yourself and your son we are all here when you need us.

Take care

Saffron xxx

Sounds like you have a drunkard on your hands!!!

If so, there is not much you can do save pointing him in the right direction for help. In the meantime, you must concentrate on your own well-being and that of your child.

Keep sober yourself.

IMHO