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My wife is seeing another man! - I'm distraught!

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27 Oct 08 #60401 by cat66
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Hi 'Whyme'

If i were you i wouldn't waste my hard earned cash on 'proving' she is having an affair.........you know what is true and it won't affect the way any assets/money are divided.

If like you say the only reason is to make the man shes having the affair with get his 'just reward'the easiest and cheapest way by far would be to pick up the phone and call her or write her a letter.

My second husband cheated on me.....despite denying it time and time again!!!..........but i caught him with her in our MH!!!.........in the end i didn't ring or write to the other husband i chose to rise above it......i'm agreat believer in 'what goes around comes around'

Use your energy to rebuild your life,thats far more important than proving she's been up to no good!!



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27 Oct 08 #60403 by polar
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Keep posting. Keep reading. Amanda and co and others will help you through this somehow. You are amongst friends here. Take care Polar

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