feel stupid

hi,i'm 45 six foot two and i cant stop crying over my wife seeing someone else,i feel stupid

I know how you feel - you feel humiliated. All I can say is there are lots of us that are going through this and you have to stay strong. A visit to the doctors may help !! take care.

Hi Roloo

Sorry you've found yourself here but it is probably a good place to get feelings off your chest and get a friendly ear. You are certainly not alone.

Don't feel stupid, you placed a trust and that was betrayed (for whatever reason). That doesn't make you stupid.

Try the chat room as well. They can be a bit scary at first but people are really friendly.

Might be popping in later myself once the children are in bed.

Cheers and keep your chin up.

hi roloo
I am 47. married for 17 years. My s2bx is happy with another woman. I cry every day while they are wallowing on their pink cloud of happiness. intence jealousy eats away at me. keep posting and let us all know if and when your feelings start to change. we have to help each other thru this. big hug to you hun. debs

Hi roloo

Plenty of us here understand just what youre feeling .
stupid ...... dont know how many times ive said that to people ... I just feel so stupid that I never saw it coming , that I missed any signs .....
people say to me , no youre not stupid , you couldnt have known , why would you suspect etc etc doesnt stop you feeling stupid though does it ...... stupid, naive , gullible ..... but after 6 months , I do manage to reason with myself , I was trusting , and would I want a relationship built on suspicion without trust ... no ....

There is no escaping the tears and the upset , I still get upset and cry at the slightest thing , but it is getting better and it will for you too

take care

shiny

thanks shiny,it feels good just to chat

Hi Roloo,
welcome to wiki.What ever your size and shape we all feel the pain as we are only human.Crying is good for you better than bottling it in.
Once you have recovered,if you feel embarassed by it ,you can always change your name.lol
We will try and help you through this horrible phase of your life ,it does get better,but never fast enough for any of us.
go to chat when you need to rant.
take care.
((((((big hugs))))) but I think I will have to lift me to give them to you as I only 5 ft.
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