Divorce at the hands of a Ukranian woman

Hi, My friend who is going through divorce pointed me in this direction.
My husband and I have been supporting his brother who is suffering at the hands of his soon to be exwife. She is Ukranian and most definitely the most caniving, manipulative, cruel, evil person I have ever had the misfortune to meet .
If my brother in law survives her I will be amazed and thank God.
They married 2 days before her visa expired:huh: and their daughter our niece was born 17 months later. When she was 2 they moved from a one bed flat to a three bed house where it was made clear by her that they were to have separate bedrooms five years later she served a non molestation order on him completely out of the blue and that was a year ago.
By lying in court to support fabricated charges she has managed to get him out of the house and is currently produced an order that he should have no contact with his daughter saying that his parents are denegrading her in front of their daughter another lie:angry: .
Thoughout their entire relationship he paid for everything including her parents visits with pocket money, her pocket money, petrol money etc all household bills etc including her car, which he bought.
He has been the sole carer of his daughter for the recent years. She has currently got custody of the daughter whom she neglects terribly. Their daughter wants to be with Daddy and cries terribly when returned to her mother and recieves no comfort from her mother.
I am going to tell him about this site as I feel it will help.
Please could you point me to any blogs of anyone with a similar tale as I feel this would really help before he and we drown in this mess!!

Cristal12 wrote:

Hi, My friend who is going through divorce pointed me in this direction.My husband and I have been supporting his brother who is suffering at the hands of his soon to be exwife.

Maybe it's because it's getting late, but run that by me again!!

She is Ukranian and most definitely the most caniving, manipulative, cruel, evil person I have ever had the misfortune to meet

Welcome to Wikivorce.

Sorry I guess you'll have to come back and read it again in the day time:-)

It's hard not to rant on and on she has hurt the entire family:angry: so please excuse me if I was a bit too much for an intro:unsure:

hi crystal,
welcome to wiki.
How old is his daughter?
If there is any sign of neglect of a child by either parent this should be reported to the social services.If this is upheld then there is a good chance of the father having custody.
Is he still supporting fully financially.
Unfortunately and sadly there is a lot of marriage for visa,he should have seen it coming when she decided on seperate bedroom.
Tell him to log on and we will try to support him.

Hi thanks for your reply:)
His daughter is nearly seven. he has contacted the social services several times but they have not given the situation any notice. It would seem they have more pressing cases in the local area and have no time for this situation!
in the recent hearing which she instigated(an emergency residency) by lying and fabricating the judge believed her testimony and told him he was a liar. her lawyer twisted what he said, exaggerated unimportant things and played down the neglect and her violent discipline that she uses on their daughter.
Unfortunately he is not in good health and the stress is taking its toll on him, despite this he takes far better care of his daughter than she does and has a wonderful relationship with her.
I will encourage him to log on here tomorrow and I feel sure it will help.