New and feeling lost

Hello everyone. I'm new to wiki and wanted to introduce myself. I'm a 24 year who was married for two years. One day, 8 weeks ago, my huband said he was no longer happy and left! I have no idea why or what I did. Feeling very lost and have many unanswered questions. Ihave spoken to him and he has no explanation. Its making it very hard for me to start moving on! He now wants a divorce. Finding the whole thing very painful!

Hi Tara,

Welcome to wiki, you are not alone now.

Many on here have suffered the same, had no explanation and have been left spinning and wondering what on earth has happened.

The trouble is if you are not given a reason, it is harder to understand. It is cruel and uncaring and only makes you feel worse.
He probably does have answers, but he might not be able to tell you, sometimes you never find out the truth.

Have you any family and friends that you can call on?

My ex did the same thing, I had no idea, and then woooosh within 10 minutes, dont love you, and out of the door.

It takes a while to actually realise what is actually happening. It is early days for you and need all the support you can get. That is where wiki is going to be valuable to you, there is always someone around on the site.
Pop into chat, they are a friendly bunch and will make you feel welcome, it takes a bit of time to join in sometimes, but it is well worth while.

Dont rush into anything as far as divorce is concerned, and most definitely, do not agree to, or sign anything. Just take your time and think about what you want to do. You will get plenty of good advice on here which should help you see things a bit clearer.

If there are any questions that you need answering, just create a post.

For the moment though Tara, just try and keep yourself well, call on family and friends, come on wiki and take every bit of help and advice you can.

You are not alone, take time to read through some other posts.

take care for now, and dont be frightened to ask questions.

You have lots of friends here already.

best wishes
zara:)

Welcome to the site. You've found the best place to be going through this. It's not easy when the other doesn't give an explanation. The people on this site are a friendly lot. Most people reply to your posts quickly, whether it be just wanting somebody to listen to your rants or matters about divorce. When it gets on top of you, start a blog. I have and have found it a great release. Although those that read it have found that most of the time its about everything but my situation.
Take care,
ck

Hi Tara and welcome

Sorry to hear your situation. You have come to the best place to talk through how you feel, with lots of people that can understand you, support you and help.

Its still very raw for you, and you must be still shocked and stunned and very much in pain, with what sounds like such a sudden announcement. Sending you a big hug x x

But most importantly, I can honestly say that I bet its not what you did. Its painful not to know the reasons when you have not seen it coming. The most important thing for now is to take each day at a time, be kind to yourself, talk, rant, cry, do anything that you feel you need. Use your friends and family for support and us on here, we have been there and we know how you are feeling x

Take care and huge hugs x