I lost my wife to Second Life.

Welcome to wikivorce, your not alone in wondering how it could have all happened. I was supposed to be a mind reader, and if I ever asked what was happening in stbx's life got told I shouldn't have to ask ! work that out. So we never spoke much in the last 2 yrs of our marriage.

Hi I dont think the problem is with the game. Its the people that play it that is the problem. I have also seen this game and as far as I know it doesent promote indescression. It allows for people that have no real life to have some kind of fantasy life outside there normal dull lives and that can be good. Your wife had things missing in her life and when this game came along she was able to live out the kind of life she wanted. But reality is nothing like fantasy. And this is the problem for you. In time the reality will hit hard. Then its likely that she will want to come back. She has had an old fashioned affair in the real world and a virtual one. How you deal with this is upto you. C