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den haag mom
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21 Nov 08 #67065 by den haag mom

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Hi Everyone, I am new to this site. To be honest I am hoping to get some insight into a situation that is really affecting me during this time of my divorce. I am Canadian and married a dutch man 10 years ago and live in Holland. Life with P was always a challenge as he has a history of burnouts,depression and egocentric behavior. Last year he got involved with an organization to find himself (he was married once before me and decided he needed to find the true him) spend over 12,000 euros and things led to our divorce( his affair, lying etc). We have a 6 year old and since the Spring he has had 3 different girlfriends, one after the other. As soon as he starts the relationship he gets my daughter involved immediately,he sleeps with the women while my daughter is sleeping with kids she bareley knows and as soon as 3-4 months is up, he is on to the next.He does not see anything wrong with his parenting behavior and in fact told me he wants to give our daughter a "diversity of experience"!!. I find it so awful for my daughter and until the divorce is heard by a judge in February there is nothing I can do.

Has anyone had any experience like this with and ex-spouse? Any feedback is welcome. Thanks

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