I can see clearly now the rain has gone!

Hi, I'm new to the site and last night was going to write my detailed account of what has brought me here but having viewed several sites that members of this forum directed me to, I no longer feel the need........... Thankyou all so much! For thirty years I've been living with a narrcistic man and didn't now it, and for the last fourteen years have been sharing him with someone elses wife, boy if only I'd found out sooner, they could have stopped living the dream and started living the reality then. Am feeling clear headed and empowered and the moment but I'm well aware tomorrow is another day and I'm going to need a lot of support to get through this, but the one thing I have learnt from all I have read is this, he never has and never will love me or any one, so I can't loose what I never had.

Hi Newdawn

Wow what a really possitive post Welcome to wiki.

This truly is a wonderfull website that many people find so comforting.

If your bad times do come, which i really hope they don't you will find lots of support on here.