Heart broken again

Sorry to hear about your situation ditchedagain. But you certainly are in good company. I guess we are all have been or are in a similar position.

I can't see how her relationship with this new guy is going to last. What goes round comes round. She will get her turn.

Not only is it unfair on you but it is also unfair on her son, whom, as you say, she has not taken care of. It's very sad and awful.

It makes me wonder what the world is coming to.

Best.

the world is a joke...nobody seems to believe marriage is for life..flippin sick of it

Hi,

Sorry to hear what has happened to you.

Unfortunately as a lot of us find our ex's suddenly seem to lose the plot and go off with people who have no idea of marriage, commitment, loyalty etc because they want a fling and then get carried away and think they have found true love!

You can get through it but it does take time and also being firm with the ex and making sure you don't get taken for a ride!

Good luck and keep posting! I certainly found it helps to get things of my chest and also to offer support to others as you are certainly not alone!

Steve

Hi Ditched

I'm so sorry that you find yourself going through this awful time.

I too am being 'ditched' for the second time, both husbands cheated on me, and I did go through the 'what's wrong with me' thing but over time I've realised that it's all for the best, things will be tough financially, but I'll be happier and you will be too, just hang in there.

Take care of yourself and keep posting.

Roo x

Dear All,

Just to update you if youve read my story then you`ll know my ex is in florida with her male 'friend'. well ive just received texts from her this morning...
Each seperate text is seperated by space in row..its messed me up even further...

I hope your ok G. Have wanted to text u daily I have thought about you so much. I wish I hadn’t cum away

Im so stressed here. Ive collapsed bin sick, and pooing blood, and I cant eat or sleep

Pls just luk after yourself. I have made the worst decision of my life but its too late

Im not having a great time, not even gud time. Will txt u in cuple of days is that ok


What do you all make of this....I cannot get back with her. It was her decision to leave, and seems already she is realising the grass isnt always greener. If she isnt happy in florida of all places then whats going to happen when she comes home to debt agencies chasing her, the prospect of repossession, and no job....mmmm


Well…the bullet has finally bitten then

I sometimes wonder what I would do if my stbx did something like that and said she'd made a mistake.

I really like to think I would not have her back as I gave her ample time to sort things out but she went on and did what she did. It sounds like your stbx had the same luxury but went on and treated you badly and just thought of herself. If you have her back she will most likely do it again, next month, next year or whenever!

In my opinion you should move on and get your life back without her.

Steve

Hi there

well we all like to think what goes round comes round and it sounds like it has for your wife already !!!
second time for me too !! and I cant help but wonder " why me"? there will definately be no third time lucky for me !!!

shiny