A decision to make ... help!

Hi J

I may be well off base here but do you think that by asking the question on Wiki where a large majority of people have been cheated on and who will give you the same sort of reply you are subconsciously seeking the 'stay with your wife' answer?

My husband has cheated on me and you couldn't possibly understand the devastation and pain it has caused. I've lost my 'soulmate' and a man I love with all my heart, my future, half my family (in-laws) and soon to lose my home.

Please talk to your wife and try and sort this out. We all get bogged down in day-to-day life and romance flies out the window. You once thought of your wife as your 'soulmate' and had passion and love for this woman. I'm sure with some work on both sides you can recapture some of this back.

Of course your new relationship feels exciting, that's how nature intends it to be, it's all hormones and the excitement of something new, but in time you'll find yourself in the same situation when you are both busy and tied up with everyday life.

Think of your children, you owe it to them to give it one last try.

Good luck

Roo x