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20 Dec 08 #73724 by Handleman
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20 Dec 08 #73733 by Elle
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Handle,

You clearly love your wife and want to take care of her and the children. You appear however to be in a very confusing place at the moment....divorce about to be served but having sexual relationship! Not quite above board legally.

Has the timing of your discovery of your x's spending had an impact on her not communicating? That did these two events occur simultaneously/

Regards the MIL...you didnt marry her...why does she feature so large in the picture.

Stay strong,

Elle

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20 Dec 08 #73736 by candlelight
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Hi Handle,

Never have sex with your ex,this is not the same as having opportunistic sex ---and having no intention of regularising
the relationship again.

She is showing little respect for you so why would you want this?

Save it for somone who will put you on a pedestal and will make you her top priority. You deserve nothing less.

take care, debs x

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