Hello

Hi Sadface,

Sorry to hear your story.

Firstly don't apologise for 'moaning', WIKI is full of kind people who have been through or going through very similar experiences to you. It is a good place for your to come to get support.

I guess you have discused the situation with your husband, what does he want, does he want to leave and live a single life, is there no chance to rebuild your life together.

Keep posting.

Mark.

Hi welcome to wiki. I no it is hard to deal with but we are all here to help. One question, Are you sure he has not got someone else as your situation sounds very similar to mine. I had the whole dont love you anymore blah blah blah and then found out he was having an affair. I know it is not what you want to hear but from what I have been told not many men or women give up their comfortable family life that easily unless there is someone else dragging them away.

Keep posting on here and pop into chat from time to time as we are all going through the same thing and you will get through it.

Take care

To me it sounds like he has totally switched off, especially to show no reaction when you are crying.

I am still living with my wife after finding out about her affair which she continues to have, we are looking at how to seperate sensibly but still have feelings for her, when she cries I want to console her.

I don't really have any advice, other than you need to find out what he wants, does he want to move out or continue sleeping in your daughters bed? What does you daught feel about this

Others on here will have much better advice so hang on in there.

Mark

hi Sadface...
I have just signed into this forum and am completely new to this site and to my situation in life.
I feel for you and what you are going through. I am not even sure if it is appropriate for me to reply to your post. It may sound strange, but i guess I am going through what your husband is going through.
I wanted to put a lot of text here, but am deleting it. I will just say that I hope that things work out for you.
I feel for you because, I have a very sad spouse at home and after having told her that our marriage is not working, she is very sad and alone at home. And it kills me to see her that way. I cry on way to office everyday, remembering what she is going through.