New member - nervous hi to all

Hello there, I have been separated for five months (my choice) and have just started divorce proceedings. Struggling a bit with my decision even though I know I have made the right one. Good to know I am not the only one going through turmoil.

Hello to all, hoping to find the light at the end of the tunnel!

Hi anewme

Welcome to Wikki - I have been visting this site since last May - my marriage broke up in March and have found it very useful and a helpful (and fun) place to come.

Lots of people with similar stories and useful advice.

I hope you find it just as useful

Jolly:)

Thanks for the welcome, good to be able to chat to people who have been through the same.

Mostly I feel pretty good about things, though some of x's behaviour drives me nuts!

Hi anewme


Welcome to wiki

please feel free to post any questions you may have and maybe you may like yo join us in the chat room, every one is friendly ,talk is that of divorce and your general banter.

Hallo and welcome!

I think its normal to wonder if you are doing the right thing. I went through a stage of wanting my ex back, even though I had asked him to leave, and he was living with someone else and I KNEW that it wouldn't work out.

I think we just want to fix things and go back to when it was OK, but of course we can't go back.

I went through shock, disbelief, denial, grief and anger. I didn't just cry a river, I cried an ocean. I started seeing a women's counsellor and I also was briefly on anti-depressants. With their help, this site, and my wonderful friends who have all been there for me - even the ones I haven't seen in yonks - I have moved on. Ex I feel totally indifferent to and instead of being an emotional blob, I feel I can cope.

Good luck.