hi

Like most people on here never could have imagined two years ago that I would be in this situation, although was happy to get divorced after finding out what he had been up to and also how he treated me for many months am struggling to come to terms with everything. Seem to have all the crap heaped on me at the moment, money worries, problems with the children, and just trying to run a house, work, look after children, animals etc. All seems a bit too much at the moment. would be nice to know I am not alone

hi magnoac.
you are def not alone.
Are you recently divorced or is this a post after 2years? either way its a difficult journey, but we all hope it gets better for us.
I am hoping to give people as much help as poss as I go through my journey, and maybe one day I hope not to log on to this site, the list of people coming and going is never ending, and that is the sad part.
I sometimes wish there was abill passed to stop these situations happening!!
Try to deal with one thing at once. You cant take everything on.
Get organized, which I am sure you are, and if you stop and think you are probably undersestimating yourself, look how far you have come up to now?

hi styve100
thanks for your reply really does help to hear from someone, am recently divorced in december, like I said was happy for it to be over but wasn't prepared for how useless it would make me feel as if I have completely failed my children. Like everyone I have good days and bad days and things are a little better than they were in December but like they say it's good to talk and I'm glad I've found this website. Oh yeah nice pecs by the way

hey, you have not failed your kids, quite the opposite I would say and thats fact. Do get that thought out your head.
Your a great person, feel it as a release now and time to go on and do better things
(thanks!)

You have not failed your children. You are doing your best for them. You are showing an example of how people overcome adversity which will stand them in good stead in the future.

And you certainly aren't alone - a quick trawl through these threads will show you that!