Anyone out there?

Just had the 'let's separate' conversation with husband. Was feeling on my own with lots of questions but then found Wikivorce so hopefully things are not as bad! Does anyone have any advice as to how to cope. After 8 years of marriage and 2 very little children, it all seems so scary and yet we cannot carry on like this.

hi there!
ive been using this site for about a week and have the support and advice unbelievably helpfull. are you still in the marital home together? have you tried counselling etc x

Hi there

Welcome to Wiki.

Pop into the chat room, there is usually a friendly ear to be found in there, or just post away in the forum and get it all out.

Take care

Amanda

Hey Hun

Welcome to Wiki

Sorry to hear about your situation. I have 3 little boys all under 7. You CAN do it!! You will have good days and bad days but you will get there.

Wiki is a lifesaver. Post your questions and come into chat. You'll make heaps of good friends and things won't seem as desperate. PM if you want a chat xx

Good luck!!

Puds xx

Hi i joined this site a couple of of days ago and already feel like it's helped me, I have two young children and yes its really hard, this morning I had a very bad moment and felt like it was too hard to cope with but you have to take it one day at a time and you will come through it, people on here are really kind and are going through similar situations, good luck.

Welcome to Wiki, both of you (Mag and tired)

There are a LOT of people on here that have been where you are now. So you are no longer alone in this.

Things are really hard at first, try to do things slowly and not let panic take over. If you have to, live from minute to minute. I don't have young children, both of mine are adults now but it doesn't make it any easier.

The main thing is to look after yourseld first, keep the kids happy as possible and take it easy.

If you feel at a loss, come in here and tell us, we can help you, there is usually someone on here at all times (a lot can't sleep either )