I\"m new here!

Hi everyone,

I'm new to this site as of today. I just wanted to come in and say hello. I do not know much about this site but and despreate to find other people in my same situation to relief my thoughts and happenings with, people who I can be around with for support as I am going through a divorce after 20 yrs of marriage.

Melissa

Welcome to Wiki

You'll find loads of help and support, pop into chat and you'll make lots of new friends xx

Puds x

Hiya

Welcome ! You will find lots of help and support here. Read through the forum posts you will see lots of peeps going through the same as you.

Any questions just ask

poppy
x

Hi there and welcome ,

I joined this site in June 08 , and what a huge help its been . To find so many lovely people going through the same thing is such a relief , always someone to help , always someone to chat to .
This site has helped me understand the whole process better , you have just found yourself a mine of information , help and support ....
take care


shiny

Hi Melissa!

It's not easy for you, we all know that. If you want to, tell us more about how things are at the moment and how you feel. There will be someone here that has or still does feel the same. (me included!)

Take Care

Hi Melissa, i joined just over aweek ago and am still getting used to it, i too came out of a 20 year marriage and am 18 months down the line but not divorced yet, such a relief to find that other people know exactly what you are saying and why, hope you are ok and coping , take care , speak soon

Hi Melissa,
I am new to this sight today too!! Seriously contemplating divorce after 20 years of marriage too! I am concerned about where I am going to live, the financial implications etc etc. I am willing to work hard and go full time ( my youngest has just turned 16) but I want "compensation" for all the years I have been a loyal and faithful wife ( stupidly) whilst he has moaned and groaned about work , the neighbours - everything whilst just pleasing himself along the way. I am 50 next year and quite simply don't want to be married to a selfish prat who thinks the world revolves around him. I feel better already for writing this!!! whats your story? Christine.