hi i am new to this pls help me get started

hey out there fellow divorce people.i am new here and hopefully i can get the help i need.i am still living with the soon to be ex,trying to sort out my life and material objects that i have accumulated over the years.i am getting more bogged down and the depression is setting in.sleeping late,not working and depressed,so i guess i am the only one who feels like this huh?

hi dale,

No, you are not the only one that feels like that, look, nearly 30,000 people that have registered. It just feels like you are.

Lots of emotions to deal with yet, the rollercoaster ride will be rolling for a while.

There are lots on here that will help you through the bad times,
start a blog, or go into chat, they are great, they will cheer you up, or answer your questions.

Depression is not good, you need to get that dealt with so that you can cope with the day to day things in life.

Keep posting dale, let us know how you feel. You have found a place that can give you support, both emotionally and legally.

take care dale

zara

thanks zara that is reassuring that i am not the only one out there who feel like this ,although i kina figured that i wasnt the only one but the depression is part of it i guess.dealing with all the material things a house full of crap that i no longer have a use for is becoming a downer i have been purging but it seems that i am getting nowhere but got to keep plugging away huh???

dale,

trust me, you will get through this. At the moment the brick in the wall is huge, but you will move it.

Stay on wiki, we will all help you through the bad times.

There are many one here that are living with the stbx, they will be able to help you with how to deal with that.

Keep strong and stay on here, it will be your lifeline.

Any legal or emotional support you need. just ask.

lots of love
zara