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i cant believe im doing this

Learningfast
Senior Member

01 Feb 09 #85005 by Learningfast

Reply from Learningfast

Why are you so unhappy? You make it sound as though something is ruining your life, if it`s your husband then it will be for the best surely

anthea russell
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Junior Member

01 Feb 09 #85007 by anthea russell

Reply from anthea russell

Learningfast wrote:

If things are that bad, then you will only ruin it temporarily, he`s better off getting on with his life with someone who loves him or on his own for now , than with someone who has something else on their mind

that really bites hard to the core

Nemesis
Premium Member

01 Feb 09 #85010 by Nemesis

Reply from Nemesis

Dont understand why your here? is it advice? sympathy? maybe you should explain a little more.. Otherwise its a wasted post and people here can help in virtually every aspect of divorce.. we have all hurt.. have all hurt others.. but.. at the end of the day you have to have peace of mind in your own skin.

Learningfast
Senior Member

01 Feb 09 #85011 by Learningfast

Reply from Learningfast

Tell me why it bites to the core? i was trying to reassure you that people get over people and theirselves , explain a bit more why you are so sad

anthea russell
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01 Feb 09 #85012 by anthea russell

Reply from anthea russell

i am so grateful 4 everything but he makes me feel so alone so bitter I AM SO LONELY he is so controlling it cums across as bullying hes over the top about everything theirs never any risks taken WHY CARNT WE JUST GO 4 IT CHILL OWT MAN...then im stupid pathetic an idiot i darent step owt of the daily routine

Learningfast
Senior Member

01 Feb 09 #85013 by Learningfast

Reply from Learningfast

In that case then you are saying he`s ruining your life , have you talked about it? have you tried counselling and the million dollar question have you found someone else to "listen" to you ?

Zara2009
Platinum Member

01 Feb 09 #85014 by Zara2009

Reply from Zara2009

Hi anthea

Just take your time, it is hard putting your life out into public domain. But there are lots on here that will help.

What are you frightened of?

Just sit and type slowly. Put it into your own words.

We have time to listen, and we will.

just be calm

zara

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