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04 Feb 09 #86008 by Euthymia
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Hello,

Just wanted to make short post. Husband has been threatening me with divorce for months (we have only been married for 18 months!). His behaviour has become increasingly indefensible and there was a final straw moment on Sunday night. We have been together on and off for over seven years - I have left/been told to leave more than once and always returned. This time I think I have finally plucked up the courage to say no more. Having told him I was leaving him, I looked on the internet for a rental property and found one locally that happens to belong to the daughter of someone I know so security deposit and credit check waived! As soon as current tenants leave (any day) I can have it. Things happen for a reason! It's time for me to go and I'm trying to stay focussed and strong. I have two children and they have seen enough.

I will wait for divorce papers and will, of course, not defend. I do not want anything from him - I just want it all to be over. I know that is the wrong thing to do but I can't stomach the fight.

Anyway, not such a short post. Thanks for listening.

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04 Feb 09 #86030 by kezzarick
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I hope things work out for you, you sound strong and determined at the moment and I hope it continues but as you will read on here even when you are sure you are making the right choices it doesn't stop the pain and hurt.
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Wishing you well x

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