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12 Feb 09 #88787 by David2109
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Hi, I may not be the usual person on here, as I'm the sole reason for mine and my wife's current problems and impending divorce, but despite whatever mistakes I've made, the separation and situation often hurts the other person too - I've not run off with a younger woman and am not seeing anyone else, so am living with the burden of what I've done to my wife. I can only try to make amends to her and to my children, which I'm trying to do every day, so please don't be hard on me. :(

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12 Feb 09 #88836 by NellNoRegrets
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hallo and welcome

there are no winners in divorce. Everyone loses.

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12 Feb 09 #88839 by angie43
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Hi David ,
Welcome to wiki :)
You will find a wealth of support and information within the site and find friends in chat.

I'm sorry that you are feeling the way that you are and you say that you're to blame for everything resulting in your marriage break-up, people on wiki wont be hard on you the worst people for that is ourselves.

Keep posting :)

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12 Feb 09 #88862 by Claymic78
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Hi David

Welcome to wiki!!

You have said that you are hurting, and that hurt is as real as the one experienced by everyone here.

take care

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