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Hello - re-introducing myself!
12 Feb 09 #88860
by siriusB
Topic started by siriusB
Hello to all,
I joined this site a fair while ago when my stbx and I split up due to depression/and an affair.
Since then he's moved out, wanted to stay friends, wanted to work at it, got a new mortgage with me (for a new house - the other woman was our next door neighbour), moved back into the spare room, then back into my room and then finally has decided he wants a divorce.
He has been profoundly depressed since the other womans husband died (in a car crash just over two years ago - it took them a month before they started to get ...close...) and whilst he saw a counsellor for a while he has become very distant again in the last 3-4weeks.
I feel the same hurt all over again. I feel like I have wasted my time. I feel like a fool. I can't help but want back the old life we used to have pre-depression but it would seem that moment has passed now.
Very glum.
Other than that haven't got too much to complain about.
I joined this site a fair while ago when my stbx and I split up due to depression/and an affair.
Since then he's moved out, wanted to stay friends, wanted to work at it, got a new mortgage with me (for a new house - the other woman was our next door neighbour), moved back into the spare room, then back into my room and then finally has decided he wants a divorce.
He has been profoundly depressed since the other womans husband died (in a car crash just over two years ago - it took them a month before they started to get ...close...) and whilst he saw a counsellor for a while he has become very distant again in the last 3-4weeks.
I feel the same hurt all over again. I feel like I have wasted my time. I feel like a fool. I can't help but want back the old life we used to have pre-depression but it would seem that moment has passed now.
Very glum.
Other than that haven't got too much to complain about.
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