Wife has left, very sad and loanly

Sending you a big hug hun. Sorry about what has happened. You really have come to the right place. We laugh and cry together here. It is a very difficult situation to find yourself in; an emotional rollercoaster. We are here to support one another. Do look after yourself.
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Hi all
I did not introduce myself very well my head is a shed at mo.
My name is phil 43 years old living in stirling scotland, i was not born here i am originally from sunderland moved up here for work. as you may tell from my user name i like bikes have not had much chance to ride latly as the weather not good.i am fairly new to the computer world, more so now with the wife leaving i tend to search for any help in trying to understand what is going on, it seems so impossible to move forward at present. all i can do is think where she is now and who with, she has said there is no one else she just wants different things but she also says she no longer loves me. its been 1 week since she left and the pain is still the same, i have read that i should not try to contact her as this will help me heal

Hi Phil,

It is very early days for you and there will be lots for you to address regards the MH and debts you mention. You have found a great source of suport, knowledge and experience here. Take your time and be good to yourself. If you ever feel you need to chat, feel free to pm me.

Elle x

only been a week Phil so sorry for your pain, anytime you want to chat just let me know, hope you will be ok here in sunny Scotland? lol only time will help you phil and of course friends and family take care you will get through this and if I can say that then that sure is something believe me xxxx Biff

Phil

Welcome to Wiki. I only found this site a few weeks back. Wish I had found it at the beginning. I am now 8 months down the line. The site is an invalueable fountain of knowledge. More importantly we have all been where you are and some are still there so we understand your pain.

Log on anytime there is always someone here, or even if you just blog it will help to get your feelings out there.

Take care and dont forget to eat!

Marsa
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Thanks Marsa, just surviving day by day it is so very hard