Wife has left, very sad and loanly

Hi to everyone out there, this is my first time not quite sure what to do, my wife of 5 years and been together 12 years has left me. Not sure what to do she has taken everthing of hers, names taken off the bank accounts, taken back our joint credit card and left me with the mortage and £25000 debt.Help

Hi Bikerphil

Welcome to wiki, its a shame you find yourself here but at the end of the day you have come to the right place the good people of wiki will help you through this horrible time and be a great comfort to you.

Pop into chat sometime i have found it definitely helps with the loneliness and there are always great people to chat to anytime of the day and night. It has certainly helped me through some very dark days.

Take Care

JJ x

Hi Phil

Welcome to Wikivorce

I'm sorry you found yourself here - but we are a very caring and supportive community and can offer lots of practical advice. A lot of peeps here are in the same situation and will be happy to share their experiences with you.

You'll find a good number of us in the chat room regularly - so feel free to come and join us...

Shezi

Hi Phil,
Many of us guys here are /have been in your position,there will be tough times ahead, but as other have said, chat is alwas open and welcoming, come in for advice, a chat, and you can vent your frustrations/sound off at the unfairness of it all, we will understand.


G

Hi bikerphil

I am sorry to hear about what has happened to you

You have found the right web site for support and advice.

Chat is a very good place to be when you are facing difficult times ahead, everyone is very welcoming and in the same/similar boat.

Legal Surgery as advertised on the homepage is held on weekdays and wikis' professional lawyer DivorceLawyer is there for a couple of hours to help you with anything that she can from the legal aspect of what to do. This can really help to ease the trauma that comes from a break up, as it gets rid of a lot of unnecessary worries.

hi phil. sorry you are here but you will get lots of advice & support.
Practically: cancel the credit card asap to stop her running up more debt.
Dont forget to eat, even if it is only toast

so sorry to hear of your situation, we are all here for each other and in similar state it is a long hard road ahead but you will get there and be happy again, if I can say that then anyone can, take care and please keep coming back xx Biff