hello just joined....hope this helps !

hi my name is si..
separated for 2 years and divorce ongoing.. but god..it hasnt even got to the worst bit yet but its so "shitty" excuse my french no offence meant. 2 kids (boys)
would like to hear from any recently divorice guys ..who might lend an ear ..

cheers

s

Hi Si

Yep Divorce can be pretty crappy!

I have been separated for a year. Wife had an affair in July 2007, had 9 months of hell trying to sort things out and repair the damage, didn't work so she moved out. In the last few months things are much better. Still not fully divorced but have had the Nisi through and have agreed a financial split through mediation and feel like I'm on the up.

Have also been made redundant which has p****d the stbx off a lot as she can't claim anything from me!! I am quite enjoying the time chilling out, not having to a stressful job to support her, seeing my new partner and being there more for my kids and being more relaxed for them!

Drop me a PM if you want to chat about anything

S

hi thanks for the email..
always nice to sound off ...lol
my s**t is just hitting the fan...as my ex does nto want to go thru financial disclosure for reasons i wont go into but becuase thats how its heading she has changed the access arrnagments for my kids which means for now i cant see them
women lol
s