Hi I'm new and would like some support

Came across this site after me and my husband split in January he wants a divorce he told me recently it turns out now he doesn't want any children and I do which he knew at some stage might happen as we've discussed it over the years I feel as if ive been misled all along and its all been a big con.

Been together for eighteen years married for nine years hes been and got all his things of any value, and left a few things.
I feel all kinds of emotions from love to hate as I carnt believe hes done this I feel as if ive wasted so many years.
Thank you for listening.

Hi Molly

Very sorry to hear your story. You will find that you will get loads of support, advice and friendship here as unfortunately we have all been through similar things to what you are now having to go through.

At the moment you have started out on the emotional rollercoaster, I hope your ride is not too bumpy, you will have some ups and downs along the way, but you will come through it. By using this site you will get support on an emotional and practical level

All the best

S

All the best

S

Hallo and welcome Molly

Don't think of the years as wasted. there must have been some good times.

But you do need to look to the future rather than the past.

Hi Molly,
You'll find loads of help and support on here. Am new myself only been 7 weeks since split but it seems to help to even just post how you feel cos there is always somebody who will answer and help or even just knowing they listen is sometimes enough to get you through the nest bit.
Take care of yourself and messg me any time you like.

Cat

Hi Molly, As the rest for the wiki peeps have said stick with us and with all the support and help you get you will start to feel better. Everyone is so helpful. We all are going through this emotional hurtful time, you will feel your load get lighter once having got support from this site.
Good luck and Take care.
Cisco X

Hi Molly
Sorry to hear about what you are going through, its not easy which ever side of the coin you are on, but the site is great!

I have found a lot of support and read lots of blogs whi has been very helpful

I hope you do too..

Take care of yourself and feel free to say hi if you want to chat!

Best Wishes

M

hi

Im new on here too, you are at the start of the road, it does get slowly better, so just hang on in there

x