yes, another new face

hi all,
just introducing myself on here. early stages i think, i still cannot believe this is happening, and how much the ex has changed. married for 16yrs with 3 fantastic kids 10,7,4, all the problems came to a head at the end of last year when my ex didn't appear to want to sort a few things out, preferring to blame me for everything. i feel like i've been taken for a complete mug, i've not got any real friends as i was too busy working and paying bills. So now i'm out the house, expected to pay for a mortgage to a house i've no keys for, not get annoyed when people tell me i can't see the kids, and meet every unbelievable demand made through the ex's lawyer.

the upside is at least, when i do see my kids i have a great time with them, i have control of my finances, a wee flat with enough space for the kids to stay for a few nights, i see my family more than ever and i am slowly beginning to get a life. i know the sore part is coming with the house and courts, etc but i can see a future. would i go back to what it was like near the end? not now, i think....! my ex is living in a cloud but thats no longer my problem. chin up everyone....

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