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Tell youre ex misus you've had a £10k wage cut!!!

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28 Jan 10 #180650 by saffron1968
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Why not just move into a Youth Hostel...they do some very cheap ones Earls Court lol...its a disgrace that you are living in luxury in your 2 bed flat whilst your poor ex harridan has to suffer like this. ((((hugs)))) and keep smiling and dont let it get you down, love your sense of humour xxx

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28 Jan 10 #180656 by gettingadjusted
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Haway

How inconsiderate of you!!!

I have an idea why dont you shove a broom up your @rse and then you can clean her house as well so that she does not have to pay for a cleaner thereby saving her money!

Honestly men we just dont think laterally do we?

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28 Jan 10 #180675 by hawaythelads
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Just to put this in perspective my income will now be £1125 a month net.
my rent is £800(thats what 2 bed flats in london cost) and she was prepared to accept £325.
Looks like the diet will be going well this year!!!!;)
This morning she has now started texting that I should put my proposal in email.
My Consent Order states CSA rates £44 per week.
There was me thinking she'd agreed that figure of £325 yesterday.
is hard up though with her £1700 a month income made up through child mintenance working tax credits etc.And thats without the other bloke who lives there who should be giving her at least £400 per month board to live in the £400k marital home which she bought off me for £90k.
fecking grrreeeaaattt;) ;)

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29 Jan 10 #180966 by hawaythelads
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Update.
what a day the ex decided to renege on the amicable verbal agreement of yesterday of £325.
Requesting the proposal all via email lol
I said I thought it was an agreement lol
I think I know where DL was today typing her emails for her.OF COURSE ALL IN THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE CHILDREN.
I stuck to my one line of this is above the csa rates as specified in the consent order.
That just trips off the finger tips.
I have however decided to take my normal course of action and take the path of least resistance and roll over and continue to pay the £400 a month.the guilt of depriving of her tax free holiday fund was too great a guilt for me to bare!!;)
Just have to think up some dodgy ways of making a bit more dough suggestions on a postcard please to Hawaythelads Park Bench bromley adjacent to the lavatories.;)

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29 Jan 10 #180970 by Elle
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hawaythelads wrote:

I have however decided to take my normal course of action and take the path of least resistance and roll over and continue to pay the £400 a month.


Shall I cancel "the" call :unsure: ;)

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29 Jan 10 #181007 by kezzarick
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I would just stick to the CSA calculations.... you are too kind xx

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